Caryl & Jay Casbon

Side by Side: The Sacred Art of Couples Aging with Wisdom & Love

About Jay & Caryl

“Love begins at home.”

Caryl & Jay Casbon met at Lewis & Clark College in 1995, and have been together ever since. We were drawn together through a deep soul recognition, and have stayed together to share a life of common passions, including a contemplative, Christian faith, interest in writing, story, and creative endeavors, pilgrimage, and family. Jay’s lifelong professional journey focused on education, leadership, learning, and faith. Caryl’s pursuits always include writing, ministry, spiritual direction, education, and creating spaces for inner work, spaces for the soul. They are currently living in Santa Barbara, California.

Jay & Caryl Side By Side Aging

“We know deep within that we are only fully human when we learn to love another human being.”